Verses 1+2 " And you he made alive, who were dead in trespasses and sins" verse 2 " in which you once walked according to the course of this world, according to the prince of the power of the air" Listen we don't have to live our lives like this world and certainly not according to the devils wishes! But how you ask? Look at Romans 12:2 " and do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind"
Look ! The transformation of our minds does not happen over night, you have to stay at this, be dedicated to reading these chapters, and I garauntee you that you will see and understand God's word and his ways better!!!